Introvert tee
Turns inward.
The short answer
Shy is about worry. Introvert is about energy. A shy person is nervous about being judged. An introvert just recharges alone.
In other words
“There’s zero correlation between being the best talker and having the best ideas.”
Susan Cain · The power of introverts, TED, 2012
Side by side
How they compare
Shy
Nervous or uncomfortable around people, often because of fear of judgment. Can be extroverted and still shy.
Introvert
Comfortable with people, and drained by too much of it. Needs quiet to recharge.
Both
Some people are shy and introverted. Some are one and not the other.
The test
Would you want the party if the nerves went away? If yes, shy. If no, introvert.
Questions
Common questions
Can an introvert be outgoing?
Yes. Many introverts are outgoing and just need quiet afterward.
Can an extrovert be shy?
Yes. An extrovert can crave company and still feel nervous in it.
Is shy a diagnosis?
Shyness is a common trait. If it gets in the way of your life, a professional can help.
Do introverts hate people?
No. They tend to like people in smaller doses.